I have some good news and some bad news. The good news is you show up fine in Yahoo and Bing unfortunately you have to click one more button to show perfectly in Google. However I'm using the tool that I strongly strongly suggest that you use
Screaming frog spider SEO
http://www.screamingfrog.co.uk/seo-spider/user-guide/
100% free for windows, Mac and Linux up to 500 pages per domain it tells you everything listed in the URL above. And will actually check your index status if you right-click on the a link that you want checked.
I believe that it is a matter of time however I would adjust your robot text to suit the information found at yoast.com below and in addition to that I would add your site map
so your robot text looks like this.
I would change my robot text to
User-Agent: *
Disallow:
Sitemap: http://www.example.com/sitemap.xml
In addition I have to go to work honestly or I am dead however I believe the frog spider will help you very much and if you add the site map to the robot text that never will hurt.
I will private message you regarding one other issue I don't know if you want talk about here.
your robot text is giving me some issues. But it may not be this.
http://tools.seobook.com/robots-txt/analyzer/
Your current robot text is this below I hope this is okay to share I don't think it'll violate any trust or anything like this it's not showing the site
User-agent: *
Disallow: /wp-admin/
Disallow: /wp-includes/
try out this tool as well
http://phpweby.com/services/robots
I would change my robot text to
User-Agent: *
Disallow:
Sitemap: http://www.example.com/sitemap.xml
having the site map in helps a lot and if you have a /
Google tends to block more things. That are not listed below such as the site map
I also believe what this has to say is correct
http://yoast.com/example-robots-txt-wordpress/
also see
http://stackoverflow.com/questions/13527529/robots-txt-is-blocking-wordpress-site-from-google?rq=1